On dating..

Dating in the new decade has to be better than in the old decade!!

Honestly, we are on day 2 and so far I have had 2 "dates". My first date was on New Years Eve as you saw in my previous post, with Miss Holly' and she (kinda having to be, as she has been my best friend for 15 years) was THE most attentive date. Always with me, by my side, always with fabulous conversation, and awesome dance moves!! I LOVE YOU MISS HOLLY!! OH!! Not only was she a great date for New years, she has promised to be my date for the Valentines dance as well!! What a fantastic friend!!

Date # 2.. My dear friend Huey! Fabulous conversation, nice to look at, fun, and funny.. (trust me there is a difference!).. Met at the last minute for coffee, exchanged pictures, laughed at the fact we can do that with our cell phones and not the old wallet photo's.. Technology! I have to say, it is always nice to spend time with a handsome man, who likes you, compliments you, is a gentleman, is fun to talk to, and has a smiles that warms you from the insides out.. It is sadly very rare these days..

Most of the men I have come across are looking for a "hook up". Frankly, I am tired of that.. there was a time and a place, and I am over it.. have been for a while.. But it still seems to be remarkably prevalent in the species of the male. sad, yet true..

My dates from 2009, ALL of them, suffer by comparison! It makes me believe I should have been dating my dear friends and Huey from the start, however, isn't that how we learn? Through trial and error?